"Hey Chris, I wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed your sermon last Sunday. I know you put a lot of time into that message as no stone was left unturned. You delivered the points so well, with fear of God because sin is just that and can't be sugar coated but you gave the ultimate message of God's love and forgiveness."
This text message came from a family member that I had no clue would be listening in that Sunday morning. And this is just one sweet example of many. I have received deeply encouraging and kind words randomly throughout my week on multiple occasions. A quick search of my iMessages sent me down memory lane as I reread unexpected message after unexpected message. As a pastor, where my every word and deed can be under a microscope, it is so helpful to know that my efforts haven't been in vain.
Reminiscing over these moments has led to a subtle conviction. I have received these messages plenty of times, but I cannot say I have sent them as often as I should. Regretfully, I've thought about how much I appreciate so-and-so or how I thought someone did a good job on something, but I haven't communicated that to them.
I want to defend myself by saying "it's the thought that counts!" But that is a terrible lie that no one believes. Let's be honest. There have to be dramatic, unforeseen circumstances to hinder your actions for you to truly claim "it's the thought that counts." In no typical area of our lives will this excuse carry any weight. Our thoughts cannot pay our bills, recover lost moments, or make someone feel loved. It's only when our thoughts are expressed through word or deed that they count for anything. Like when James says that simply telling someone to "be warned and filled" doesn't clothe or feed anyone (James 2:16), building someone up in your mind doesn't fulfill the command of Ephesians 4:29.
Particularly in this Christmas season, learn a lesson from and with me. When your find yourself feeling thankful for someone, tell them. The next time you notice someone doing something well, let them know. Make that phone call. Send that text. You never know how the Lord is going to use those touches of kindness. You'll be a better friend and I'll be a better pastor if we will remember that the thought only counts when it is shared.
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